(1A) SECRETS ISOLATION & SHAME

(1A) SECRETS ISOLATION & SHAME

Secrets, isolation and shame are what abusers and their loved ones have in common. 

Support is what is needed to gain the courage to see our thoughts emotions and actions as they really are. 

Recovery is the process of recognizing our tendencies and accepting ourselves right where we are at. It is the act of shouldering our responsibility for all of our choices. 

Recognizing our own denial is the first lesson in Recovery.

 
The video above is an extreme case, but the principles are universal whether overwhelmed with anger or fear, her story is well worth the watch!

habits ARE LIKE cats
SAFE AND FRIENDLY

OR 
SADISTICALLY CRUEL 
WHEN FEEDING?

WHAT KID OF HABIT DO YOU FEED?
ONE AT your side, under PURPOSEFUL control... 
oR one that SEEKS TO CONTROL you?

ARE YOU NAIVELY OPTIMISTIC ABOUT YOUR COMPANIONS AND THE FUTURE THEY OFFER?

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